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Donna L. Montaldo

Ways to Cut the Cost of Musical Instruments

By August 25, 2013

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trumpet"Mom, I want to be a trumpet player."

I clearly remember the day I heard the words. Our son was nine years old, and so far in his young life his interest in playing an instrument consisted of banging on our piano about five minutes every month or so, but now he was telling us (with total conviction) that he was going to master the trumpet. Later my husband quietly told me, "Don't worry. This too shall pass."

But it did not and for the next several weeks we heard a lot about trumpets and his friends with trumpets. The fact that he stuck to the same topic for more than two weeks convinced us that he was serious about wanting to learn. We certainly did not want to discourage him from showing an interest in music. So we decided to make the investment and get him a trumpet, even though we were on a very tight budget.

Over Night Success? Not Hardly

After looking at all of our the choices (mind you, this was early internet years) we did manage to give our son a trumpet, which he happily blew on for about a month and not so happily for another month. After that, there was silence, despite our efforts to encourage him to play.

My husband then decided that he would learn to play, explaining that it had always been something he wanted to do. I think it had more to do with his inability to stand seeing our investment sitting, ignored in the corner. However, showing complete enthusiasm, he took a stab at it. That also lasted about a month and like many other things that end up as dust collectors, so did the trumpet.

Six Years Later

About six years later (out of the blue) our son showed a renewed interest in his trumpet, to the point of returning to his music lessons, playing daily and attending summer band camp. He later played in his school's marching band and loved it. Looking back, as difficult as it was to afford the trumpet, I am glad we did it. It contributed to his happiness.

Moral of the Story?

If you are on the fence about buying your child an instrument because of the cost involved and the fear that they will lose interest, my professionally untrained parental advice is to try to work it into the budget. Worst case scenario? When you hand it to them they'll say, "A trumpet? Oh yeah, I changed my mind. I really want to be a professional soccer player." Remember, you can always sell it.

In the article, "Cut the Cost of Musical Instruments," I offer tips on how to decide if you should rent or buy an instrument for your child and ways to find affordable instruments.
Comments
August 16, 2012 at 4:14 pm
(1) starrpoint says:

If your child wants to play an instrument, let them, but look for bargins. Either try renting or see if relative also played.

My son got his first Clarinet from his uncle. He went on to play the tuba, sax, trombone, etc.

But we were always able to find good quality pieces used or almost free. He also learned to repair them, which gave him added income in college.

And having to really work to learn to play was good for him!

August 27, 2013 at 7:35 pm
(2) Sandra Nardo says:

Well, my daughter went through many phases before she found her “calling”. Gymnastics, dance lessons, sports, but, Music is her life. From that first inexpensive guitar when she was 10, she has come a long way. She now has several professional guitars,electric and acoustic.At first,we rented her trombone, then bought it. Of course,when she was accepted into a Music program in College,we upgraded to a professional trombone, and keyboards etc. We feel it is an investment for her future. My best advice,if your child is really serious, then buy the best that you can afford and insure everything! My daughter just started her Junior year as a Music Industry major.

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